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Dr K K Aggarwal

It has been an ancient saying that ‘time is the biggest healer’. Mathematics of it comes from a dialogue between Lord Shiva and Parvati while narrating the process of meditation in Amarnath Ki Yatra.

As per mythology, Amarnath Ki Yatra involves sequential halts at multiple places including places where Shiva left Nandi, Moon, Sheshnaag, Ganesha and five elements before entering the cave. In the cave, he had Tandav Nritya when eggs of pigeon got the benefit out of it.

In mythology, Nandi or the bull symbolizes with desires (lust), moon with expectations of the mind, sheshnaag with ego, Ganesha with ones attachments with the family and the five elements with ones attachments with the worldly objects.

Tandav Nritya symbolizes with the experience of ecstasy, the feeling of bliss during meditation and eggs of pigeon symbolizes with genes in one’s DNA.

The same process can explain what happens during meditation and also what happens when one goes for a pilgrimage break (incubation period) as a part of detoxification of the mind.

This sequence can also be translated into what happens when a person gets disconnected to any person, body or event.

The first to go will always be Lust towards sex, alcohol or smoking (especially, sexual lust). The next to go will be expectations and then ego. The last to go will be the bondage with attachments to the family and then to the worldly objects.

For example, if a woman loses her husband suddenly she will go into an acute grief reaction. She will need some time to overcome that grief and during this period, she will go through de-grieving as defined above.

Depending upon what is the negative energy bothering you – is it desire, expectation, ego or attachment, one can calculate the time period of distressing accordingly which will be required to overcome the grief.

Lust was the common reason for occurrence of Ramayana and Mahabharata. In Ramayana, Rama symbolizes with soul, Lakshman with determined mind and Sita with physical body. Dashratha represents the one who has conquered the ten senses.

As per Vedic sciences, Kama, Krodh, Lobh, Moh andahankar are the five vices which can cause any disease. Kamain Ramayana is symbolized by Kekai, Lobh with Maarich and ahankar with Ravana. It was the lust (Kekai) which was responsible for series of events which lead to Ramayana. Lust, therefore, was the root cause for Ramayana.

In Mahabharata also, it was the Yudhishthar’s gambling (lust) which lead to insult of Draupadi, the Panchali, which lead to the ultimate war.

In both Ramayana and Mahabharata, lust was the initiating factor. In Vedic sciences also, amongst Kama, Krodh, Lobh, Moh and ahankar,Kamais always the first factor.

Non-fulfillment of Kama (desires) leads to krodh (anger) and fulfillment ofKamaleads to Lobh and Moha (Greed and Attachment). To control negativity of the mind, one, therefore, needs to work to control the lust in one’s mind.

In Ramayana, lust later I symbolized withBaliwho was killed by Rama from behind and not from the front. It symbolizes that lust cannot be killed by the mind (Lakshmana) but has to be killed by consciousness (Rama) in a lust-free atmosphere.

During meditation also, the thoughts of lust are first to come and first to go. In any spiritual journey which involves spiritual detoxification, thoughts of lust are first to go.

Time is the biggest healer. Any lust related memory is always short lasted. The description of this comes in Amarnath Ki Yatra where Lord Shiva leaves the Bull, Nandi at the first instance.

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Diwali is celebrated on the day of Amavasya but the festival is symbolized by inner happiness, lighting or Purnima.

Moon in mythology is symbolized by cool positive thoughts. Normally on the day of Amavasya one encounters negatives thoughts and on the day of Purnima positive thoughts.

Diwali is the only day in a year where one experiences positive thoughts on the day of Amavasya, hence some people believes Diwali symbolizes Diwali with inner Purnima and out Amavasya.

Diwali celebrations also coincide with the terminal phase of Chaturmas, the four months of negative state of mind.

The purification process in Chaturmas starts with 1st Navratre falling on Amavasya. During these nine days one undergoes mind, body and soul detoxification by not thinking negative, doing positive things and acquiring soul based knowledge.

The mind, body detoxification during Navratre ends with killing of Tamas (Kumbhakarna), Rajas (Meghnath) and ego (Ravan) and of consciousness (Rama) over the evil.

These benefits do not lead to inner Moksha or happiness until 20 days, the day of Diwali. In order to continue getting benefits of Navratre one needs to fast with positive state of mind every fourth day till Diwali.

On Sharad Purnima, the fast involves thinking positive with a cool mind to get health benefits. Four days later, on Karvachauth again, one fasts and worships the Moon with positive thoughts and acquires longevity benefits. Four days later on Ahoi Ashtami again, one worships the moon and the stars with positive thoughts and acquires fertility benefits. On the day of Dhanteras one acquires a win over the fear of death (Yama). On this day, the fast involves deeper meditation (Samudra manthan) to get all the benefits of Samadhi.

At the end of the meditation in the state of Samadhi, one gets in touch with the consciousness or the God, the insight gets illuminated and a person experiences bliss, a state of ecstasy of inner happiness and that is what is called experiencing inner Purnima on the day of outer Amavasya and the festival is celebrated as Diwali.

Let us all worship this Diwali as a state of positive mental state. This one month of purification of thoughts helps one in combating the depression phase seen in winter.

Diwali is the only Amavasya where one does not do Shraadh pooja.  On Diwali Amavasya (falling in Chaturmas) one is allowed to start any new project. Even deaths on this Amavasya are considered auspicious (unlike on other Amavasya days).

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Today the only thing observed in Navratre is food-fast for nine days and most of us either do not eat anything or eat only limited food during these days.

Fast does not mean ‘not eating’. Rather it basically means controlling the desires and simultaneously cultivating positive mental attitudes. Desires can be of many types. Desires to eat tasty food, desires to smell, desire to listen to a particular music, desire to watch beautiful things, etc.

Fast therefore can be of many types. Food fast means controlling the desires for food items which you otherwise may not resist to eat. Eye fast means, not watching things which are Rajsic in nature. Ear fast means avoiding listening to Rajsic (stimulating) music. Action fast means not indulging into activities which stimulates and creates Rajsic thoughts in the mind, and speech fast means not speaking anything evil, etc.

In Navratre during the first, three days, a person is required to indulge into activities which reduce the negativity in the body. The physical purification involves regular bath (of the external body as well as various orifices); mental bath which involve self-confession exercises, and willful attempts not to think negative. During these three days, a person tries to restrain himself from thinking, speaking or doing any activity which can harm the other person. The five obstacles to internal happiness are attachment, anger, desire, greed and ego. A person tries to restrain from all these negativities. These negative thoughts should also not be suppressed or repressed as otherwise they will manifest into some internal diseases.

The next three days, after the negativity in the mind has been reduced, involves building positivity in the mind by way of various positive mental exercises. These involve mixing up with people, sharing, giving, donating, socializing, reception, etc. Cultivating an opposite thought to a negative thought in the mind is the easiest way of tackling the negative thought. Calling all the people you know during these three days helps in creating social health.

The same was taught by Gandhi Ji as “ do not see evil, do not hear evil and do not speak evil”

The last three days involves reading and understanding good scriptures and learning from the sins of others.

Once you have concurred the negativity in the first three days (representing Kali) and have built up happiness and positivity in the mind (representing Lakshmi) the only thing left is to acquire spiritual knowledge (representing Saraswati). During these last three days a person is purified enough to understand and grasp the knowledge of ‘Self’ and to understands and discriminate between good and bad. One also learns to stay cool irrespective of the face of life being joyful or disturbing. One learns to continue his actions while detaching it with the results.

After the nine days of self-discipline is complete, the person acquires inner happiness which is nothing but one’s exposure or appointment with the true self or the consciousness ( Rama). That is what Dusshera is with killing of Tamas ( Kumbhakarana), Rajas ( Meghnath) and ego (Ravana).

And the birth of consciousness is equivalent to being in touch with birth of Lord Rama which is called “Ramnavmi”. Hence we should celebrate Ramnavmi as a disciplined way of acquiring internal happiness and not as a forced nine days of fasting.

The same interpretation lies in the Navratre ending up with Dusshera the win over the ego and attaining inner happiness.

About the author: Dr K K Aggarwal is Padmashri and Dr B C Roy National Awardee, President Heart Care Foundation of India, Dean Board of Medical Education Moolchand Medcity, Sr. Physician & Cardiologist, Chairman Ethics Committee Delhi Medical Council, Visiting professor Clinical Research DIPSAR, Past President Delhi Medical Association and Past Academic and Research Wing Heads IMA.

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