As per mythology, Amarnath Ki Yatra involves sequential halts at multiple places including places where Shiva left Nandi, Moon, Sheshnaag, Ganesha and five elements before entering the cave. In the cave, he had Tandav Nritya when eggs of pigeon got the benefit out of it.
In mythology, Nandi or the bull symbolizes with desires (lust), moon with expectations of the mind, sheshnaag with ego, Ganesha with ones attachments with the family and the five elements with ones attachments with the worldly objects.
Tandav Nritya symbolizes with the experience of ecstasy, the feeling of bliss during meditation and eggs of pigeon symbolizes with genes in one’s DNA.
The same process can explain what happens during meditation and also what happens when one goes for a pilgrimage break (incubation period) as a part of detoxification of the mind.
This sequence can also be translated into what happens when a person gets disconnected to any person, body or event.
The first to go will always be Lust towards sex, alcohol or smoking (especially, sexual lust). The next to go will be expectations and then ego. The last to go will be the bondage with attachments to the family and then to the worldly objects.
For example, if a woman loses her husband suddenly she will go into an acute grief reaction. She will need some time to overcome that grief and during this period, she will go through de-grieving as defined above.
Depending upon what is the negative energy bothering you – is it desire, expectation, ego or attachment, one can calculate the time period of distressing accordingly which will be required to overcome the grief.
Lust was the common reason for occurrence of Ramayana and Mahabharata. In Ramayana, Rama symbolizes with soul, Lakshman with determined mind and Sita with physical body. Dashratha represents the one who has conquered the ten senses.
As per Vedic sciences, Kama, Krodh, Lobh, Moh andahankar are the five vices which can cause any disease. Kamain Ramayana is symbolized by Kekai, Lobh with Maarich and ahankar with Ravana. It was the lust (Kekai) which was responsible for series of events which lead to Ramayana. Lust, therefore, was the root cause for Ramayana.
In Mahabharata also, it was the Yudhishthar’s gambling (lust) which lead to insult of Draupadi, the Panchali, which lead to the ultimate war.
In both Ramayana and Mahabharata, lust was the initiating factor. In Vedic sciences also, amongst Kama, Krodh, Lobh, Moh and ahankar,Kamais always the first factor.
Non-fulfillment of Kama (desires) leads to krodh (anger) and fulfillment ofKamaleads to Lobh and Moha (Greed and Attachment). To control negativity of the mind, one, therefore, needs to work to control the lust in one’s mind.
In Ramayana, lust later I symbolized withBaliwho was killed by Rama from behind and not from the front. It symbolizes that lust cannot be killed by the mind (Lakshmana) but has to be killed by consciousness (Rama) in a lust-free atmosphere.
During meditation also, the thoughts of lust are first to come and first to go. In any spiritual journey which involves spiritual detoxification, thoughts of lust are first to go.
Time is the biggest healer. Any lust related memory is always short lasted. The description of this comes in Amarnath Ki Yatra where Lord Shiva leaves the Bull, Nandi at the first instance.

