It is an old saying that one is proud of his or her own intelligence and somebody else’s partner and wealth. Most disputes occur when there is an ego clash and this occurs when you want your point of view to be noticed by everybody. But remember that for every situation, invariably, there will be multiple opinions.

In one of my meetings, I asked my lifestyle students–cum–colleagues to imagine Rahul Gandhi as the Prime Minister of the country. Following were the views of various people:

  • He is too young.
  • He is immature.
  • He is childish.
  • It will be failure of democracy
  • He has no political will
  • He has no strength for taking decisions
  • He has no experience.
  • He is open–minded.
  • He will bring youth to politics.
  • He has an experienced team behind him.
  • He will bring a new approach to politics etc. etc.

The message is very clear that everybody has their own perception and we should learn to respect that.